He’s In The Waiting: From Infertility to Adoption

As I take a deep breath, and try to put words on paper about our story of adoption, I wonder if I can do it justice. Our story begins like many others. We had dreams and aspirations when we first got married. Jim and I got married in 2005, and because we are an older...

A Lot Has Changed For Me The Past 6 Years

Sometimes we assist women and we lose touch with them. They move or life just gets busy for them. We often wonder if we helped at all! When we get notes like the one below it proves that even though you may not see the results of your work or even your prayers at the...

His High School Football Helmet

I wanted to take a moment to tell you about a wonderful experience that we had recently. Although our son, Matthew (age 9), has been able to see his birth mother and her two children several times over the years, his birth father, Armando, has always lived out of...

Caught Up In Our Own Feelings

I think so many times as adoptive couples we get caught up in our own feelings we forget what our birthmothers are going through. We all have to write the ‘dear birthmother’ letter that is required but how many of us can really relate to the words we write? Most of us...

I Wanted Nothing But The Best For You

From the moment I conceived you and found out that I was having you, I wanted nothing but the best for you. I wanted to be the best mom, but you needed a daddy too. I was sad and confused, I felt lost and alone, I did what I thought was necessary to give you a better...